Parenting can be hard, especially when your children aren’t listening.

No family is living perfectly, though some parents are always fighting for their children to afford food, schooling, clothes, and everything their kids wish to have.

However, they may sometimes act unhealthy in front of their children, and that sometimes affects their learning, behavior, and other aspects.

When children see their parents arguing or fighting in front of them, they develop anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem.

Therefore, it automatically affects their mental health.

Not only that, but their academic performance is also affected, they score lower grades, and that harms their emotional and social skills.

What you need to do as a parent is to create a space at home where your children will feel secure and taken care of.

You can leave your fights and argue outside the house so that your children won’t get affected.

You also help your kids do well in their studies from your home by following the tips we are going to give you in this article. So, enough talk, let’s jump right into it.


Have a high expectation of your children


Let your children know you are expecting them to do well, that you believe in them, and that their education is important and matters.

For instance, you can encourage them by telling them the following expressions: ‘’If you work hard, I know you can do well,’’ ‘’How do you think you can improve next time,’’ ‘’I think you do even better,’’ ‘’in our family we value school and learning.’’

Fifty different studies have been conducted to examine parents who have high expectations for their children, and these studies resulted in significant revenue.

The results were that high expectations deliver to your children more positive energy than drilling them with flashcards or helping them with homework.


When giving your children feedback on a particular work, make sure to be as specific as possible.

Support Your Children’s Learning At Home

Carol Dweck conducted a study that shows that parents’ feedback plays a role in how motivated the kids are in school.

Your children need to know where they are making mistakes, and you are the one who’s going to fix that. Always remind your kids that hard work will make them smarter and more competent.

You need to focus your praise on the learning process, not just on the outcome.

Make them believe that the more effort they put into work, the more they will learn.

Remind your kids that their brain is like a muscle, which means it’s a good thing if they are working hard and struggling or making mistakes. That’s a sign that they are learning and increasing their intelligence.


The more you talk about school, the more likely your kids will love it.


Don’t ask your child that regular question of how school was today. Instead, ask them about specific details and let them strut their stuff.

Try to ask them questions like what was the best or the hardest thing they have done at school or whether they had enough fun and play hours.

Kids love it when they feel smarter than you.

However, you want to prevent asking them negative questions or questions where you will get answered by yes or no.

You want to avoid that because you need your kid to engage with you and to participate in the conversation.

Some kids prefer not to talk about how they spent the day at school.

Therefore it can be a little challenging for their parents.

These parents should talk to their kids and explain to them that it’s crucial to talk about their day at school. Not only that but also kids need to be more open with their parents.


Support your children with life experiences


Now when we talk about life experiences, it doesn’t necessarily mean taking them across the world or doing anything extravagant.

You can go on weekend getaways to places where your children will gain some experience. You can do crazy, unique, and different things together.

Surprise them from time to time; surprises make kids think.

The more experiences they are going to have, the more benefits they will be.

A lot of research highlights the idea of being a great reader in case of having more life experiences, and that is due to the more context you have.

That is to say, the more experiences you are giving to your child during the week or the weekends, the better readers they will be, and ultimately the better learner they will be.

Try to create a healthy routine with your kids’ hectic school schedules


Getting your kids into a good routine can be challenging, as well as giving them activities and experiences without overbooking them. And that’s the goal of many parents.

You want your kids to have the opportunity to try different things, but you want to go easy on them.

The first thing you need to take into consideration is how many activities your kid can handle during the day.

Some kids enjoy having a busy schedule, and some do not like being active all day, which means you need to know the limits of your child.

You can also consider their opinion when choosing particular activities.

You don’t want them to get bored or angry, so taking their consideration is a clue.

From your side, try to look for activities that do not require a lot of effort, funny, educating, and, most importantly, your child should be enjoying it.


Support your children to create good work habits


You can help your kids to develop their positive attitude and good work habits. You need to help them shape their work habits and planning.

Make them be open to asking for help when it is required. Also, give them a hand in navigating a world that is full of distractions.

Your child’s discipline is in your hands. Teach them to be persistent, ambitious, dreamers, and, most importantly, achievers.

You need to be a sample and a role model for your kids because children look up to their parents in the first place. Make your home a positive and motivating zone so that your children won’t feel the opposite.


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